The quaich (pronounced "quake" or "kwaych") — a shallow, two-handled drinking cup — is one of Scotland's oldest surviving symbols of hospitality and friendship, and a popular addition to modern wedding ceremonies and receptions.
Where it comes from
The quaich's name comes from the Gaelic "cuach," meaning cup, and traditional versions date back centuries, originally carved from wood and later made in silver or pewter. Historically used to offer a welcoming drink to a guest or to seal an agreement between two parties, its two handles are usually explained as allowing it to be passed and held safely between two people at once — a practical origin that became a symbol of trust.
How couples use it in a ceremony
Most commonly, the couple shares a drink from a single quaich — usually whisky, though a non-alcoholic alternative works just as well — at a specific point in the ceremony, symbolising their union and the start of sharing a life together. Some couples extend the moment by having both sets of parents, or the whole wedding party, share from the quaich afterwards as a gesture of families joining together.
Where to buy or hire one
Pewter and silver quaichs are widely available from Scottish gift shops, specialist Highland outfitters, and online from independent Scottish silversmiths, ranging from simple pewter versions to engraved silver heirloom pieces. Some venues and celebrants keep one for couples to use on the day rather than buying one specifically — worth asking before you purchase your own.
Making it personal
Many couples have a quaich engraved with their names and wedding date, turning it into a keepsake rather than a one-use prop — a genuinely popular choice as a wedding gift from parents or the wedding party for exactly this reason.
Talking to your celebrant
Like handfasting, a quaich ceremony has no fixed legal or religious requirement attached to it — it's an addition you can include in a civil, religious or belief ceremony alike. Raise it with your celebrant in advance so the timing and wording can be built into the ceremony script.